I believe that life is a graph with "x" axis being our time line and "y" axis our emotions to it. It flows in a really weird zigzag manner and takes us for a roller coaster ride. But whatever happens I tend to look up to this 5 C self created mantra (mantra=words that create magic or at least guide you through)."Whatever situation life takes you, be Calm, Cool, Composed, Confident & Courageous"
This is a mantra which I believe in. This self tried mantra is something which I try bookmark for tough times or for that matter easy going or challenging times.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"
- Eleanor Roosevelt
The one complex that is available in all parts of the world is this one.
The first seed to this comes when our mother's say "don't touch this", "don't lift that", "you are TOO SMALL to hold it", "you'll BREAK it" and the seed grows during our school and college days thanks to all the bullying and ragging sessions by our friends and goes on to become huge un-curbed poisonous weed coz of the career doubts; uncertainties; peers; financial pressure; family pressure and ends up spoiling our whole life.
It spoils our confidence; self esteem; self worth; this; that; everything. If by any
chance we have this then it is suggested that we should immediately curb it out to the core.
One needs to understand that it is just not our fingerprints but also our abilities are really & truly unique to everybody and if you believe in that everybody's ability is unique then every human being are incomparable products. If two products can't be compared then how the heck can one be inferior or superior to other?
Just remember that everybody have unique ability and work towards it. Everybody are equal. Here is a more clear explanation of it. http://searchwarp.com/swa26350.htm